August 14, 2023 Eileen

INSIDE OUT ABUNDANCE

Where does your mind go when you hear the word ‘abundance’?

The dictionary definition says ‘more than enough of anything’.THE EMPOWERMENT EFFECT

Some of the world’s great teachers have their own definitions.

 “Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into.” ~ Wayne Dyer

“The key to abundance is meeting limited circumstances with unlimited thoughts.” ~ Marianne Williamson

“Abundance is about being rich, with or without money.” ~ Suze Orman

But the one who comes closest to the truth of abundance is writer, Mark Twain, who said 

“If you want love and abundance in your life, give it away.”

It seems counter-intuitive to give away your abundance, especially when you’ve worked hard to have it! But feeling free and confidence enough to give your love, money, time, attention … to others is the key to creating a flow of all good things in your life.

This includes paying your bills, giving someone your full attention, sharing the fruits of your garden – anything that involves you transferring some of what you have to another.

But it’s not WHAT you give, or HOW MUCH you give that counts.

What really matters is HOW you give.

Are you paying your bills with fear or resistance? 

Are you spending time with someone begrudgingly?

Are you giving with the expectation of getting something in return?

But here’s the thing!

If you have bills, you have them because you consumed something – electricity, gas, the use of your phone, your car insurance. If you’re paying a lot of income tax, it means you have a lot of income to be taxed.

That’s a blessing.

If there are people in your life who would benefit from your time and undivided attention, you have people in your life!

That’s a blessing.

If your garden is full of fruit and vegetables, it’s because you have a garden and the ability to grow produce.

That’s a blessing.

Imagine if you could feel as good about giving – in any capacity – as you do about receiving?

Try it!

Next time you pay for something, do it with an attitude of gratitude that you have the means to pay for that thing.

Next time you sit with someone, be there knowing that you are blessed to be a source of support for that person.

Give generously and with gratitude, even if you don’t have much to give right now.

Abundance is an energy and all energy needs to move!

The more you allow your abundance to flow from the inside out, the more abundance you will experience, because you are creating the space for it.

Try it for yourself.

You have nothing to lose but a sense of fear and lack.

January 31, 2023 Eileen

WHY YOU CAN’T HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER I fully believe that we are presented with learning opportunities every single day of our lives, and recently I have experienced an abundance of lessons! The biggest lesson has been about Integrity. Integrity is one of my most important core values, and it took a loving and courageous friend to show me where I was not fully honouring it. I was not practicing what I preach to everyone willing to listen about being kind to yourself, and allowing your unique and precious light to shine! Which brings me to the topic of…

May 24, 2022 Eileen

Many years ago, when our children were quite young, my husband was a smoker. self-worth

No matter how tight money was, he needed (and got) his cigarettes every day. It was a non-negotiable, accepted fact that feeding his habit was a priority. And nobody thought it was weird, or selfish.

Apart from the health implications, nobody mentioned what his tobacco addiction cost the family because it was embraced as part of who he was.

self-worthJust like insisting on decent toilet paper is part of who I am!

The amazing thing is, that our budget always stretched to accommodate the cigarettes (and the good toilet paper).

Thankfully, he doesn’t smoke anymore but it got me thinking about what is non-negotiable in my life – besides good quality toilet paper.

Where will I not compromise?

Or, more importantly, where am I settling for less?

Try it for yourself.

Your weekly groceries can be very revealing!

Is there even one item on your shopping list that is non-negotiable?

Do you prioritise yourself even once a week?

What’s the worst that could happen if you gave yourself permission to splash out and buy the nice coffee, or the good chocolate, or the soft toilet paper?

Life is one big experiment.